/u/TommyHankster on Cheating on my husband at work

I believe i have been in the receiving end. I understand people change. Our emotions change. We could even fall in crazy love with someone else during times when we are emotionally weak. It is ok to start to like or even love someone as it is not always something we could control. What is not Ok is that your husband has all the rights to know it. You cannot get everything in a mutual relationship. You either get what you wanted the most, the handsome guy or whatever, or get the right to decide what is next. Apparently, you are about to choose the handsome guy, so let your husband decide what is next. Tell him and let him choose to divorce you or to try to talk you out of this. Then, things will be fair.